The Culture of Self-Neglect in Medicine — and How to Opt Out Without Quitting
In healthcare, burnout isn’t just common—it’s often expected and glorified. Long hours, chronic understaffing, and a culture that equates self-sacrifice with dedication leave many clinicians running on empty. But what if you could stay in the work without abandoning yourself? This post explores how to recognize the hidden culture of self-neglect in medicine, why it persists, and what it takes to opt out—without walking away from the profession you care about.
“Other People Have It Worse”: Why Minimizing Your Pain Doesn’t Help Anyone
Ever catch yourself thinking “I shouldn’t complain” or “Other people have it worse”? It sounds like perspective—but often, it’s self-invalidation in disguise. Your pain doesn’t have to be the worst to be real. In this post, we explore where this habit comes from, how it harms us, and what it looks like to honor your own emotions without guilt or comparison.
Living from the Inside Out: Why Values Matter More Than You Think
If you feel stuck, disconnected, or like you’re constantly second-guessing yourself, it might be time to check in with your values. Your personal values are your inner compass—the things that matter most to you, beneath the noise of expectations, pressure, or perfectionism. In this post, we’ll explore why values matter, how to identify your own, what happens when you’re out of alignment, and how even small shifts can bring you back to yourself.
The Guilt Trap: How to Stop Feeling Bad for Taking Care of Yourself
Do you feel guilty when you set a boundary or take time to rest? You're not alone. Many empathic, hardworking people—especially those in helping roles—struggle with guilt anytime they slow down or put themselves first.
Can Clinicians Work Internationally? Here’s What You Need to Know Before You Go
Dreaming of practicing therapy abroad—or taking your LCSW overseas? The short answer: it’s possible, but not in the way you might think. From legal gray areas around remote therapy to alternative paths like consulting and coaching, this post breaks down what clinicians need to know before working internationally. Whether you're considering expat life or looking for global impact, you don’t have to give up your skills—but you do need to get informed.
Overthinking Everything? You Might Be an Empath with Anxiety
Empaths with anxiety often feel responsible for the emotional temperature in every room. You sense things before they’re said. You overanalyze to stay ahead. And somewhere along the line, your intuition got tangled up with worry.
How to Protect Your Energy Without Shutting Down
If you’re an empath, a helper, or someone who feels everything, you might be running on emotional fumes—numb one day, overwhelmed the next. Boundaries don’t mean closing off. They mean creating space to breathe, rest, and reconnect—on your terms.
How to Redefine Productivity When You Live With a Chronic Illness
If you’ve ever pushed through pain just to prove you’re still “productive,” this one’s for you. You don’t need to earn rest. You don’t need to prove your worth through output. This post explores how to let go of overworking and redefine what it means to be productive when you're living with chronic illness or pain.
Still Caring, Still Here: How to Stay in the Work Without Losing Yourself
If you're a healthcare provider or clinician feeling emotionally worn down by the work you once loved, you're not alone. Staying in the work without losing yourself isn’t just possible—it’s essential.
Vicarious Trauma in Healthcare: When Other People’s Pain Starts to Feel Like Yours
When you work in healthcare, other people’s pain can start to feel like your own. You might carry stories, images, or emotions long after your shift ends — and it doesn’t mean you’re weak. It means you’re human. This post explores what vicarious trauma really is, why it’s so common among healthcare workers, and how therapy can help you keep caring without losing yourself.
Therapy for Healthcare Workers: Why You Don’t Have to Hold It All Together
Therapy for medical professionals can ease anxiety and burnout. You don’t have to hold it all together alone. Support is available in PA, NJ, DC, and VT.
How to Practice Self-Compassion: A Guide for Empaths, Caregivers, and Helpers
If you’re someone who gives a lot—to your clients, patients, loved ones—you might find self-compassion foreign or even uncomfortable. You’re quick to extend kindness to others, but when it comes to yourself? The bar is higher, the tone harsher, and the expectations heavier.
From Burnout to Freedom: How I Moved Abroad and Reshaped My Clinical Career
Clinicians moving abroad can reclaim their careers after burnout. Learn how I relocated, redefined therapy work, and built a new path on my terms.
From Survival Mode to Sustainable Living: What Healing Actually Looks Like
You’ve learned to function in survival mode — to push through, show up, and keep it together no matter what. But healing isn’t about going back to who you were before. It’s about building a life that doesn’t require you to abandon yourself.
What If You Stopped Fixing and Started Feeling?
If you’re someone who feels deeply—who senses the emotional temperature in a room before a word is spoken—you’ve probably learned to carry a lot that isn’t yours. You may offer comfort, insight, care, and calm to everyone around you. But when it comes to your own inner world, do you extend that same compassion?
What High-Functioning Anxiety Really Feels Like (and Why You Might Miss It)
High-functioning anxiety hides behind success. Learn how overthinking, perfectionism, and burnout can show up — even when everything looks fine.
Perfectionism and Chronic Illness: A Tough Combination
Perfectionism and chronic illness don’t play well together. When you’re used to holding yourself to impossibly high standards, being forced to slow down — or let go — can feel like failure. But what if rest, softness, and flexibility weren’t signs of weakness, but part of your healing?