The Culture of Self-Neglect in Medicine — and How to Opt Out Without Quitting

In healthcare, burnout isn’t just common—it’s often expected and glorified. Long hours, chronic understaffing, and a culture that equates self-sacrifice with dedication leave many clinicians running on empty. But what if you could stay in the work without abandoning yourself? This post explores how to recognize the hidden culture of self-neglect in medicine, why it persists, and what it takes to opt out—without walking away from the profession you care about.

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Self Compassion Caitlin Dwyer Self Compassion Caitlin Dwyer

“Other People Have It Worse”: Why Minimizing Your Pain Doesn’t Help Anyone

Ever catch yourself thinking “I shouldn’t complain” or “Other people have it worse”? It sounds like perspective—but often, it’s self-invalidation in disguise. Your pain doesn’t have to be the worst to be real. In this post, we explore where this habit comes from, how it harms us, and what it looks like to honor your own emotions without guilt or comparison.

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Values, Acceptance Caitlin Dwyer Values, Acceptance Caitlin Dwyer

Living from the Inside Out: Why Values Matter More Than You Think

If you feel stuck, disconnected, or like you’re constantly second-guessing yourself, it might be time to check in with your values. Your personal values are your inner compass—the things that matter most to you, beneath the noise of expectations, pressure, or perfectionism. In this post, we’ll explore why values matter, how to identify your own, what happens when you’re out of alignment, and how even small shifts can bring you back to yourself.

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Can Clinicians Work Internationally? Here’s What You Need to Know Before You Go

Dreaming of practicing therapy abroad—or taking your LCSW overseas? The short answer: it’s possible, but not in the way you might think. From legal gray areas around remote therapy to alternative paths like consulting and coaching, this post breaks down what clinicians need to know before working internationally. Whether you're considering expat life or looking for global impact, you don’t have to give up your skills—but you do need to get informed.

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Empath Caitlin Dwyer Empath Caitlin Dwyer

How to Protect Your Energy Without Shutting Down

If you’re an empath, a helper, or someone who feels everything, you might be running on emotional fumes—numb one day, overwhelmed the next. Boundaries don’t mean closing off. They mean creating space to breathe, rest, and reconnect—on your terms.

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Vicarious Trauma in Healthcare: When Other People’s Pain Starts to Feel Like Yours

When you work in healthcare, other people’s pain can start to feel like your own. You might carry stories, images, or emotions long after your shift ends — and it doesn’t mean you’re weak. It means you’re human. This post explores what vicarious trauma really is, why it’s so common among healthcare workers, and how therapy can help you keep caring without losing yourself.

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From Survival Mode to Sustainable Living: What Healing Actually Looks Like

You’ve learned to function in survival mode — to push through, show up, and keep it together no matter what. But healing isn’t about going back to who you were before. It’s about building a life that doesn’t require you to abandon yourself.

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Empath, Acceptance Caitlin Dwyer Empath, Acceptance Caitlin Dwyer

What If You Stopped Fixing and Started Feeling?

If you’re someone who feels deeply—who senses the emotional temperature in a room before a word is spoken—you’ve probably learned to carry a lot that isn’t yours. You may offer comfort, insight, care, and calm to everyone around you. But when it comes to your own inner world, do you extend that same compassion?

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